Unraveling Unseen Scripts: Becoming the Author of Your Own Story


In this article, we’ll explore the intriguing concept of unseen scripts – those unconscious narratives that influence our thoughts, actions, and reactions in the classroom. Just like you, I’ve spent two decades as a guide, helping thousands of students write their own stories. Now, it’s my mission to help you, fellow educators and school leaders, become the authors of your own story in the world of teaching by unraveling these scripts.

Understanding Unseen Scripts

Imagine you’re a seasoned actor, but this time, you’re not performing on a stage – you’re in your classroom every morning. You’re handed a script you’ve never seen before, and it starts to dictate your words, emotions, and behavior. These are your unseen scripts, hidden stories deeply ingrained in your mind, shaping your teaching approach without your conscious awareness.

So, where do these scripts come from? They’re a blend of past experiences, childhood memories, societal expectations, and moments from previous classrooms – those you’ve either attended or taught in. Think of them as narratives that define who you are, how you should act, and your perspective on the world.

Common Scripts in Education

We all carry certain common scripts in our teaching careers. Perhaps it’s the belief that you must always maintain control in the classroom, the notion that showing vulnerability is a sign of weakness, or the idea that every student should adapt to your teaching style. While these scripts may offer a sense of security, they can also constrain us, limiting our ability to respond authentically to our students.

The Impact of Unseen Scripts

The influence of these scripts can be profound. An innocent question from a student may be perceived as a challenge if your script is anchored in the need for authority. Your desire for perfection may turn a minor mistake into a catastrophic failure. When unchecked, these scripts can lead to disruptions, misunderstandings, and missed opportunities for genuine connections with your students.

The Importance of Recognition

Why is it essential to delve into the world of unseen scripts? Because understanding and recognizing them is the first step to rewriting them. By doing so, you can ensure that your actions, reactions, and interactions in the classroom are a genuine reflection of who you are, unburdened by the constraints of an outdated playbook.

Becoming the Author of Your Own Story

As we conclude this article, I want to be your guide in this journey. Just as I’ve helped countless students write their stories, I’m here to help you become the authors of your own scripts and create a classroom environment that uplifts both you and your students.

Call to Action #1:

Book a Personalized Coaching Session

Are you ready to take the next step in your journey to becoming the author of your own teaching script? Schedule a call with me today. Let’s work together to identify and rewrite those unseen scripts that may be holding you back and help you create a classroom environment that fosters genuine connections with your students. [Click here] to schedule your coaching session now.

Call to Action #2:

Download 10 Ways to Find Calm Amidst Chaos in Your Classroom so You Can Stop Stressing and Start Teaching Again.

We believe in the power of mindful moments in the classroom which translate to mindful moments in our schools.. To get started on your path to finding moments of pause and flipping the scripts, download our free resource today. This valuable guide will provide you with practical tips and exercises to incorporate mindfulness into your teaching practices. [Click here] to access your free PDF. Print it out and put it someplace you will be able to view it daily. It will begin the process of helping you pause in the moment.

Thank you for joining us on this journey of uncovering and rewriting unseen scripts. We encourage you to stay curious, reflect on your teaching practices, and take the necessary steps to become the author of your own story in education. Until next time, keep the passion for teaching alive and the desire for growth burning brightly